Araz Gholami

Blog Thoughts, Articles, Memories, and Events

Nowruz 2013

A few days ago marked the seventh anniversary of the opening of my blog. seven years have passed since i first felt the need to have a place to share my thoughts and experiences. over the years, this blog has become a collection of my journey through life, and i'm proud of all that it represents.i h... Read All

Keep your problems for yourself

It's a common misconception that some people don't face any problems. in fact, everyone has their own set of problems, and often more than they let on. the reality is, no one wants to listen to your problems. instead of complaining about them, it's better to focus on finding solutions.taking even a ... Read All

Beetle-oriented masculinity

One of my friends tweeted: "my logical part says that boys also have the right to be scared of beetle, but another part of my mind doesn't accept this."being a man is not a requirement, a privilege or something unusual, it's like being forced to.imagine you are on a highway and you see that there wa... Read All

I'm going to dead inside

Generally, my life is based on the idea that everything i get and every event that occurs is purely accidental. i always strive for the results of my actions to be directly the result of my will and desire. the only situation where i can fulfill this desire is if there is no logical way for me to av... Read All

Darkest Yalda

This year has been a difficult one for many people, but for me, it's been particularly trying. the loss of my beloved grandfather has hit me hard, and his passing has left a significant void in my life. the pain of his absence is compounded by the fact that i was too sick to attend his funeral. this... Read All

Open-Minded Responses

Do we only reject the words of others because we believe there is no right answer? what if their words are right, do we still not provide a response?"it's often said that there is no right answer, but does this mean that our responses are simply a result of rejecting the words of others? in a world ... Read All

The Rigors of Life

Life can be a harsh mistress and it constantly reminds us that time is fleeting. from the moment we leave the comfort of our mother's embrace, we must learn to forego the security and peace of being cared for, and embrace the challenges of the world.as we go to school, we leave behind the carefree d... Read All

The Inadequacy of College Professors

In my opinion, the professors here, even if they talk sweet and rich, their knowledge is limited. they only repeat the content that they have memorized or learned throughout their years of teaching. please do not disrespect either yourself or the professor by asking questions. if you know the profes... Read All

Bathroom of the asylum

Last night, i had a dream. it had been a while since i had a dream that i remembered. usually, i forget my dreams within moments of waking up. but this dream was different. it lingered in my mind long after i woke up.i was in a hospital, and i knew i was not a patient. i thought i had gone there to ... Read All

Recent animal abuses in Tabriz

Lately, i've been tweeting about supporting animals and something has come to my attention. every once in a while, i see stray cats with their tails cut off in the city. there seem to be no consequences for the culprits. i don't even know who to hold accountable. i've heard rumors of a group of peop... Read All

A Reflection on Communication Styles

When we see someone speaking, we often feel like they're talking above their station. we sense that their words don't align with their type or personality. it doesn't feel like they're in sync with our community and so on. but let's think differently. what exactly does aligning words with type mean?... Read All

Nightmare

Imagine a place, truly empty, with nothing in it, not even you, just your mind, in a white, soundless, and imageless void.what do you think you would be doing in this place? trying to understand why everything is white, why there is no sound, why there is nothing.suddenly, your mind starts to move i... Read All