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Asshole No More by Xavier Crement

We've all encountered them at some point in our lives: the boss who constantly belittles and undermines their employees, the friend who never seems to listen, or even the stranger who cuts in line without a second thought. these individuals often exhibit characteristics of assholism, a term used to ... Read All

Nowruz 2013

A few days ago marked the seventh anniversary of the opening of my blog. seven years have passed since i first felt the need to have a place to share my thoughts and experiences. over the years, this blog has become a collection of my journey through life, and i'm proud of all that it represents.i h... Read All

Now what?

You can challenge the entire history and universe with the question "now what?"and with a sarcastic look, you can challenge the question itself.... Read All

Keep your problems for yourself

It's a common misconception that some people don't face any problems. in fact, everyone has their own set of problems, and often more than they let on. the reality is, no one wants to listen to your problems. instead of complaining about them, it's better to focus on finding solutions.taking even a ... Read All

You are defined by the actions you take

Life is never defined by what you know about yourself. you are defined by the actions you take. perhaps even by yourself. it's a harsh reality, but it's an inevitable one.the difference between having unfulfilled dreams and not knowing what your dreams are is stark. when you have unfulfilled dreams,... Read All

Howevers

The mind often doesn't allow you to logically understand who is right and who is wrong. for example, in a discussion, if you have a particular mindset, in the end, no matter how many arguments you make, you will still return to your mindset and your desired outcome. a good way to avoid this is to ke... Read All

Beetle-oriented masculinity

One of my friends tweeted: "my logical part says that boys also have the right to be scared of beetle, but another part of my mind doesn't accept this."being a man is not a requirement, a privilege or something unusual, it's like being forced to.imagine you are on a highway and you see that there wa... Read All

Paradox of being different

It is strange to try to be different and understand that all these efforts are just to be ordinary. like people who create differences and try to eliminate them. i am confused about those who try to be different. after a while, you realize that all the trouble and effort put into being different is ... Read All

I'm going to dead inside

Generally, my life is based on the idea that everything i get and every event that occurs is purely accidental. i always strive for the results of my actions to be directly the result of my will and desire. the only situation where i can fulfill this desire is if there is no logical way for me to av... Read All

Darkest Yalda

This year has been a difficult one for many people, but for me, it's been particularly trying. the loss of my beloved grandfather has hit me hard, and his passing has left a significant void in my life. the pain of his absence is compounded by the fact that i was too sick to attend his funeral. this... Read All

Open-Minded Responses

Do we only reject the words of others because we believe there is no right answer? what if their words are right, do we still not provide a response?"it's often said that there is no right answer, but does this mean that our responses are simply a result of rejecting the words of others? in a world ... Read All

Sleepers Paradox

Someone who puts themselves to sleep can wake up, but not someone who is truly asleep.... Read All