Araz Gholami

Life feels complicated. But planning for it doesn’t have to be. Let’s break it down. All you need is a quiet space, some focus, and a willingness to ask yourself the right questions.

Step 1: What Do You Want?

Write a list. No limits, no filters—just answer the question:
“What do I want?”

Next to each item on your list, answer these two questions:

• Why do I want this?
• What’s stopping me from getting it?

Pause. Look at your reasons. Are they real? Are they coming from you, or are they expectations you’ve absorbed from others? Be brutally honest with yourself.

Step 2: What’s Blocking You?

Time to dissect those obstacles. Write another list:
“Why do these obstacles exist?”

Here’s the secret: most obstacles aren’t unique. Often, a few root causes are behind everything holding you back. Identify these patterns. What’s the common thread?

Step 3: How Do You Solve the Root Problems?

Now, for the fun part. Brainstorm solutions.
Write down ways to eliminate those root causes. Be practical and specific.

For example:

• If procrastination is the root, set shorter deadlines or eliminate distractions.
• If fear is holding you back, take small steps toward what scares you.

Step 4: Make Time and Act

Find time in your day. Even 15 minutes is enough to start. Implement your solutions and chip away at those obstacles. Once you clear the roadblocks, use that momentum to move toward your goals.

Divide your day into chunks. Dedicate each chunk to something that moves you closer to what you want. Small, consistent steps win the race.

Final Thought

The Chinese philosopher Confucius said:
“Only the wisest and stupidest of men never change themselves.”

You don’t have to be either. Take charge. Plan, act, and watch your life shift.